Then I am going to fix the vacume cleaner and clean up around the house. After that I am going to work on some writing and read. Yep boring but relaxing. Sparkle is annoying as ever, but he will be leaving in a few hours to spend Sunday and Monday with relatives. Did I mention that when he and his friend Jimmy brought the girls home from Tylers they were tweaking like crazy. You could tell, I hope they didn't do it around the girls. What they do in their own time I could care less about but as long as sparkle doesn't keep it in the house or do it around the house. As annoying as he is trying to be I just laugh and blog about it. That's all you can do.
It's the same thing with the economy and everything else that's getting bad around the world. You can either cry and fear everything that is coming and look for someone to rescue and feed into the program while our rights and everything else get stripped away from the fear that is being instilled in everyone, that is what is expected of the majority of the population. Or you can laugh in the face of adversity and danger and refuse to show fear and feed into the system. If you do that you do the unexpected and you produce a higher frequency of energy which is a great thing. People are so uptight and stressed. Ok so I understand why but come on here... what is the worst that can happen? you lose all the material bullshit that ties you down anyway? I don't know, I really don't have allot anyway and I really don't care about the material shit. I am fortunate to have just what I need, and it could get worse but one thing I know is how to adapt and improvise. I keep trying to tell the girls that if we work together and stick together between all of us we will get through anything that comes our way, but it takes effort from everyone. At least we all know how to laugh and have fun. Some people say we laugh and have too much fun, but hey, it works for us.
If you look at the funny side of any situation, you can't be uptight. That is why at work I started sending the funny pictures and emoticons to my team mates. There was way too much stress in the air with irate frustrated customers on the phone and when you hear the person across from you getting really frustrated, you gotta dosomething to get them back on track fast. The fastest way is for a silly pic of Jim Carey or any other funny pic to pop up on Instant message. I mean it pops up in front of you no matter what you are doing and when you here the stressed out person laugh and go oh shit! (after they hit the mute button) and you hear the change in their voice immediately you have just reduced their stress level so they can hopefully do the same for the customer. I sent one to one team mate when the head boss was sitting there listening to calls, and I wasn't sure if she'd be mad and I really didn't care because it breaks the stress level and makes for a better call. She actually loved it. The point is you have to find a way to laugh. You have to find a way to joke in tight situations especially now adays. So laugh and have fun, don't be so serious, be crazy and learn to deal with any situation. No matter how bad a situation seems it could always be worse.
So when I hear that loud grating, horrible cranky voice of Sparkle's I think of something funny.It totally disarms him, I know he just doesn't get it. I think I frustrate him more than he frustrates me. Here is a perfect example here is Tyler (Sparkles son, Shannons ex and hannahs father) in real life
and here is the image that I compare him with
Then there is Sparkle
Anyway i am off to the store.
Hugs,
Maria
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