Nancy's Birthday Party

The party actually wasn't bad, certainly not the war of last year. A few good friends came everyone played beer pong and had a great time. Shannon's new friend Bobby came, and he seems really nice, everyone liked him. Tommy behaved really well and we spoke. Eric showed up and Tommy and Eric have been on my shit list for some time. But since my psychic and my spirit guides keep telling me to release things from the past that are negative I did. But we won't go into that. Then Nancy's so called friend Danny brought some girl to the party, and then more of Danny's crowd showed up. No matter how well things went I kept sensing a fight with nancy involved, I could feel it so strongly. About 3:30AM Nancy left with Danny and his friends I fell asleep around 4:00 AM and Nancy left with Danny and his friends around 3:30. I knew she was with them even though I didn't see her in the car. And the feeling of drama got even stronger. At around 5:30 Nancy woke me up to tell me she'd been in a fight. Apparently the girl that Danny brought got a little jealous and attacked her from behind, from what I heard Nancy beat the hell out of her. Her finger was cut and she has a scrape and a bit of bruising in her face right between her eyes. Nancy is a damn good fighter. Tommy calls her "The Spartan" she's fought men and done allot of damage. But she's tired of people starting drama and of fighting. If she fights she wants it to be something worht fighting for. Before the party she had already decided she might want to stop talking to allot of the people she's been friends with because they are all getting older and her friends are getting into stupid shit, being wanna be gangsters and dealing drugs, basically she is maturing and wanting to better her life and they are not. Her 20th birthday was a good time to make that choice. She has decided to stop hanging out with the people that hold her back and are not good for her. We've talked several times this week and we talked again last night after the fight and I told her that this is a time of change. A time of taking stock of what is working for her and what is not. Then she needs to clean house and get rid of everything that she doesn't need and take steps to replac eit with stuff she does need. She is ready to make that change. She's been taught how to control he temper and stuff she just wasn't ready yet. I am glad to see the partying and craziness is getting old. Her real birthday is Tuesday and I am off that day, so I will make the birthday cake she wanted, and I will make stuffed shells and garlic bread and ceaser salad for dinner and we will watch movies or something and have fun. When all of us get together like that it is always a fun time.

Chloe loves Disney movies and loves to wear princess dresses. She has an Ariel dress with a hoop skirt, a cinderella, dress and a sleeping beauty dress, and yesterday all her dresses needed to be washed, but she wanted a dress to wear. Erin has a pink and white oriental dress someone gave her that she will never wear. Erin is tiny so i put it on Chloe and told her it was her Mulan dress. She loved it! So she ran around in that all night and part of this morning. Now she wants to dress up like Strawberry Shortcake.

Erin and Alex cleaned up the back yard and the shed yesterday and they found out that our cats and the neighborhood cats hang out and sleep in the shed. They get in from a hole in the back. That's kind of funny, and I eally don't mind, they aren't damaging anything and it is a place they can sleep in safety and have shelter from rain, storms and wind.

Well I gotta go take a nap.

Hugs,
Maria